The "Boyfriending" Technique - How it Works

In this post, I'm going to share with you a hint of wisdom I picked up from my friend John Alexander. (You can read a preview of his book, Become an Alpha Male, which explains how to easily get laid with women. Click "download" at the top right to download the pdf.)

One of John's techniques is called the boyfriending technique. Have you ever noticed how couples that have been together for ages often do stuff like wipe sleeping dust out of each others' eyes, or feed each other? They stand very close together and basically act more like one person than two.

With the boyfriending technique, you're using this method to create rapport with a woman. You'll essentially come in close to her space and do a very special trick (which is outlined in his work here).

This trick will make the girl you're with feel as though you've been together for a very long time. It will help to lower her defenses and make her feel more comfortable with you - which results in higher chances of getting in bed together.

My favorite part of this trick, though, is how well it works to make a girl feel at ease with you. Often girls are used to guys who are way too eager to leap into bed with them, and who have no class or suave at all. The boyfriending technique is a method that will help you not only get laid faster, but also establish trust with a girl - something you'll need if you intend to sleep with her more than once.

In a nutshell, the boyfriending technique involves using this "under the radar" technique to make her feel like you've been her boyfriend for years, and then helping her to feel comfortable in your presence. This results in the two of you going to a private place, turning down the lights, and... well, the rest is up to you.

Here's a quick outline of the technique and how to use it:

1. Go out with a girl. Preferably a quiet date like a restaurant.

2. While you're talking together, or after the date, say "You've got sleeping dust in your eye."

3. Reach out and gently wipe at the corner of her eye.

Might seem simple or silly, but if you've followed the steps in John's guide and practiced your skills with women as he outlines in the book, you'll understand how powerfully this method works.

If you want to know how this technique works in detail, it's outlined on page 145 of How to Become an Alpha Male. And for the record, I recommend this product so strongly because it really, really changed my life, and gave me the success I longed for with women for years.