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A Favorite Technique: Starting Conversations With Women

My friend John Alexander is chock full of great advice on getting good with women. I also love how easy his techniques are to implement. One of my favorites is starting conversations with women, and then keeping them going, naturally.

You'll want to use this technique if you:

1. Currently aren't good at talking to women.
2. Have a hard time getting women to notice you.
3. Aren't sure how to get women to approach you.

Here's the way it works in a nutshell.

You're hanging out at your local coffee shop, bookstore, gym... wherever you frequent. For the purposes of this example we'll use a coffee shop. (Hint: sit outside. This way, when a woman passes you and needs your help, you'll be ready to assist.)

So she comes up to you and asks for directions. "Can you tell me where the local bookstore is?"

Now, the key here is not to think, "Oh wow, a girl is talking to me." Instead, you need to sever your attachment to any kind of outcomes with this girl. Realize that she probably just wants information from you. That's it.

And quietly answer her question, as best as you're able.

From there, you might find that she wants to continue to the conversation. Often, if a girl approaches you this way, she WON'T have any immediate desire to keep talking to you. But if you hone your conversational skills and truly become an alpha male, your success with women will skyrocket.

The key is to be calm, relaxed, and have no attachment to outcomes with this girl. Remember: you're gonna answer her question, and be relaxed as she talks to you. Don't try to prod her for information - let her guide the conversation. Let her choose what she says to you. If she chooses to ask you a question, or you sense that she wants you to ask something about her, then do so. But the ultimate thing is to not be concerned with getting her number.

I know it seems contradictory, but often you will just GET her number if you aren't concerned with outcomes.

Read more techniques like this in John's book, How to Become an Alpha Male.

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