A Great Tip on Finding Balance in Your Life

Hey guys!

Just reblogging a quick post I found super useful, here:

The Law of Compensation

It's about some deep stuff like karma and life balance, and this is something I've been thinking about a lot lately. The gist of it is that for every good action you do, you'll be rewarded with another good action. Conversely, if you do a bad action, you'll reap bad things.

This works for any action in your life. Program yourself to become a strong alpha male, and you will become a strong alpha male. Program yourself that you will be successful with women, and you will be successful with women.

The key is to repeat the things you want most until you finally get them. Because you WILL. Trust me. Just keep repeating these affirmations, over and over. Here's a few you might find helpful:

1. I am becoming a strong, kind guy.

2. I am learning to love myself and my life.

3. I love women and women love me.

4. I attract all the success I desire, and more. The universe has only wealth to give me.

Those are a few I like that have helped me a lot, and if you repeat them enough, you'll eventually start taking subconscious actions to make those dreams a reality.

Really hope this helped you.

Until next time,

Max

What Women Really Want from You - A Resource for Men

Hi guys - I'm here today to tell you a little bit about what women really want from men.

The truth of the matter is: society has brainwashed men into thinking that money, good looks, or a top-shape physical body is going to get you lots of women.

WRONG.

I'll tell you what's going to get you lots of women: being yourself.

This means, quite simply, that women want you to do what you love in your life, your career, and your hobbies.

If you're wondering why, it's simple: biology, which wins out over society every time, leads women to men who are strong, free-spirited, and who do what they want. In the caveman days, before we had civilization, men and women didn't have dating sites, remember?

So how do you attract women?

I'll give you a step by step guide.

1. Get in touch with yourself. Listen to your favorite music (for me, this is the band Disturbed, some classical music, and also music that helps gear me up for exercise. This might be different for you.)

2. Spend some time alone. Figure out what you really want from life.

3. Take steps to move your career in the right direction. Take control of your career and do what you love for a living. (Note, this doesn't mean quitting a job without a backup plan for stable income. It means: come up with a plan to get a job you REALLY love, and keep your current job until you can afford to quit.)

4. Pursue your hobbies. Love working in your garden? Do it. Love playing basketball with your buddies? Call 'em up and make a date to go to the gym and shoot hoops - or even just at a court outside. Love games? Have a game night with your friends (or by yourself if you prefer). The more you do what you love, the happier you will be.

5. Meet women. This will often happen in the workplace, at school, or just out in the world. This book tells you some ideal places to meet women, if you're interested. You can generally develop skills to meet and interact with them comfortably, and start getting numbers, just by living your life.

Wondering what comes next? Only you can decide that. But what I've given you here is a step-by-step plan to rebuilding your life and connecting with the things you love.

And that, my friend, is what women want from you. They want a guy who's true to himself, and to life. A guy who does what he wants, and doesn't give a flip about what society thinks of him.

Remember to be considerate and respectful as you go about making these changes!

Why You Must Be Original To Be Successful in Your Love Life

A little known secret that many guys lose sight of in the dating game is this:

The importance of originality.

What do I mean by that? I mean that a girl is going to be attracted to a guy who is comfortable with himself, happy (because he does what he wants, not what is expected of him) and free.

Being original means having a job/career you're passionate about. It means being unafraid to say the wrong thing, but trying to say the right thing as often as you can.

It means being relaxed, affectionate, and unattached to outcomes with women.

It means being yourself in all situations, and not caring what other people think of you.

I know this is tough, and it takes time. I used to be a brainwashed "pig of the masses". I was stuck in a dead end job, felt unenthused about life, and as a consequence, was terrible with women - and all my relationships.

But then, I read the book mentioned in this post. It didn't happen overnight, but slowly and surely, that book helped me get back in touch with my REAL self - which was a confident alpha male. Not the lonely, miserable person I had become.

So if you're in a situation with a woman, or at your job, or just anywhere, and you feel uncertain about what to say or do, remember this: BE YOURSELF.

Don't try to be what other people force you to be. Be true to yourself.

I guarantee you that if you take no other piece of advice to heart than that, you will start to see real changes in your life. Hopefully, they'll be positive changes.

Here's a little "Jedi mind trick" I use to remind myself of this important originality principle when I'm feeling uncertain in a social situation.

I excuse myself for a few minutes and go to the restroom. Ideally, you can go to a quiet stall, somewhere by yourself.

Then I take a few breaths to clear my head.

I remind myself:

-It's okay.
-Nothing that happens tonight is going to ruin my life.
-I am relaxed and unattached to outcomes.
-I am ME, and that is the most important thing.

If that seems like a lot to remember, then repeat this phrase in your head, instead:

"Don't worry."