My friend John Alexander is chock full of great advice on getting good with women. I also love how easy his techniques are to implement. One of my favorites is starting conversations with women, and then keeping them going, naturally.
You'll want to use this technique if you:
1. Currently aren't good at talking to women.
2. Have a hard time getting women to notice you.
3. Aren't sure how to get women to approach you.
Here's the way it works in a nutshell.
You're hanging out at your local coffee shop, bookstore, gym... wherever you frequent. For the purposes of this example we'll use a coffee shop. (Hint: sit outside. This way, when a woman passes you and needs your help, you'll be ready to assist.)
So she comes up to you and asks for directions. "Can you tell me where the local bookstore is?"
Now, the key here is not to think, "Oh wow, a girl is talking to me." Instead, you need to sever your attachment to any kind of outcomes with this girl. Realize that she probably just wants information from you. That's it.
And quietly answer her question, as best as you're able.
From there, you might find that she wants to continue to the conversation. Often, if a girl approaches you this way, she WON'T have any immediate desire to keep talking to you. But if you hone your conversational skills and truly become an alpha male, your success with women will skyrocket.
The key is to be calm, relaxed, and have no attachment to outcomes with this girl. Remember: you're gonna answer her question, and be relaxed as she talks to you. Don't try to prod her for information - let her guide the conversation. Let her choose what she says to you. If she chooses to ask you a question, or you sense that she wants you to ask something about her, then do so. But the ultimate thing is to not be concerned with getting her number.
I know it seems contradictory, but often you will just GET her number if you aren't concerned with outcomes.
Read more techniques like this in John's book, How to Become an Alpha Male.
Tired of being the wimpy, lonely geek guy?
If you read the title of this post and thought, "yeah, man, I'm really tired of that," then you're where I was not too long ago.
I was spending nights alone at home, watching porn or playing video games, eating junk food, and feeling majorly depressed. I had no women in my life, no social life to speak of. I hated my job and quite frankly, life was miserable.
In my desperation, I started searching online for resources, thinking there had to be an alternative. There had to be a way I could get out of my misery and start meeting women - and being more attractive to them.
Well, I stumbled upon a goldmine: John Alexander's Become an Alpha Male.
Since reading this book, my life has done a complete 180. I now have plenty of women in my life - and many of the women who used to think of me as their beta male "best friend" are now flirting with me, revealing secrets to me, and basically, treating me like a god.
And let me tell you, man, it feels (excuse my language) really fucking good.
I have never met the author of this guide personally, but his writing style makes it seem like you're right there in the room talking to him. He breaks it down, step by step, how you can transform your life into that of one of an alpha male. You know - like George Clooney, and Brad Pitt, and all the "hunky guys" who are out there getting laid left and right.
What do they have that we don't? Chapter 3 of Become an Alpha Male talks about this - and tells you what to change. (In fact, you can read a preview version of the book here, to get a sample of this content.)
The book also tells you how to transform your dietary and exercise habits to get a great body (and it doesn't have to look like a celebrity's body in order to get women, btw).
It goes into detail on how you can meet women, get numbers fast, and start hooking up with girls right away.
Most importantly, it tells you how to be really happy with yourself, all the time (and how to overcome the sadness from breakups, for example).
So if you're tired of being the wimpy, lonely geek who stays home alone by himself, download this book. It will change your life if you let it.
Or check out the preview version which includes the first few chapters.
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